
Tonight Chris took Noah to participate in his Boy Scouts' Pinewood Derby. Strangely, the leaders had decided not to make it a "competition", per se, because they didn't want anyone to feel bad about losing. I don't quite understand. It seems to me that in an attempt to protect our children from feeling the blow of failure, we are taking away from them the opportunity to learn how to deal with disappointment and become fair players. If we're constantly telling them how great they are, and giving out kudos left and right, regardless of how much they've worked for it or earned it, we aren't giving them much to motivate them to try harder or do better. Just my opinion...I'm not sure why I've been on my soapbox so much lately?
Anyway, Noah enjoyed himself because he got to be with his friends and play with cars. :)